Nirma+and+Kaumudi-+bullying

__**Bullying, Teasing and Joking**__ **Bullying:** To harass or mistreat somebody mentally, socially, and emotionally. (To make fun of someone, to humiliate someone in public, to hurt someone’s feelings, cyber-bullying, discrimination and etc.) Bully- a person who has low self-esteem and who harasses somebody repeatedly. There is a victim in bullying. Boys: social, verbal and physical bullying Girls: social, mental, emotion and verbal bullying **Teasing:** A way of bullying someone by verbally or physically troubling or hurting their feelings. There may be a victim. Teaser may think that they are just joking. **Joking:** When a funny comment that is made. (When the joker and the person who the joke was used on are laughing) Make fun of someone. There is no victim.


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__ Bulletin Board __ ·  Cyber-bullying ·  Turning cyber bullying into socially bullying ·  Think before you post, be careful about what you write and upload ·  Once it starts, it doesn’t stop __ Words Hurt __ ·  Social and verbal bullying ·  What you say to others can affect them mentally, emotionally and socially ·  Don’t be part of hurting other people’s feelings __ The true effects of bullying __ ·  Physical bullying ·  What you do and say to people can affect them inside and out ·  Bullies aren’t happy and want others to get impressed and to like him (why they bully) ·  Let others be who they want to be   ·   Don’t let others take your life away

__ Bullying in the hallway (Breath Away) __ ·  Verbal, social and mental bullying ·  Words hurt, don’t be a part of it   ·   Be careful about what you say to others because it can really hurt their feelings ·  Even when you think that what you’re saying isn’t affecting them, it really is; you just don’t see it   ·   Words can hit people so hard, that it can leave a mark forever __ What would you do? __  ·   Physical, emotional, social, verbal and mental bullying ·  People //would// risk their life if someone else was in danger ·  However, some people only think about themselves and their safety, thus they choose not to help others in need ·  More people would step in if someone was physically been bullied than if they were verbally bullied. Gender also steps in because more people would help women that were being bullied and pushed around. ·  Both of us would help others in need especially if they were physically being bullied. To watch someone being hurt and bullied and not do anything would be wrong of us to do. __ Get real __ ·  Most fights come from gossip (verbal, mental, emotional and social bullying) ·  “Boys are so straightforward while girls talk behind others back"   ·   “What have I done to them?”   ·   Discrimination against smartness, religion, race, size   ·   Everybody bullies even if they don’t realize it   ·   Knowing that you are more popular and better than your peers or trying to impress your peers and only caring about yourself makes you bully others and you don’t even think about what they are going through and how they are feeling.   ·   People realize that they have hurt someone after it had affected the victim   ·   Think before you say and do things to others   ·   Sometimes you realize what you have done to other people when you, yourself experience it

__ The teen files flipped __ ·  Sometimes you are scared to let go of your perfect life ·  Most school shooters are loners in their school ·  Sometimes putting yourself in other’s shoes makes you realize what you have done ·  “It just gets to you. You can only take so much.” ·  “It’s just really sad because I’m kind of the one that’s stirring this stuff up.” ·  You should take responsibility of what you choose to do and know about the consequences that might take place because of your social actions ·  I think she said, “Thanks for being mean to me “because it made her aware of what she was making other people go through. ·  “I think it’s good that I went through this because it made me realize….Next time when I see a bullying, I will tell them to stop because it’s just not right.” ·  It was realistic. It has not happened to any of us however we have witnessed bullying ourselves. We think that this video is powerful and sends a strong message to those who are not aware. //***Both Nirma and Kaumudi equally participated in doing this activity.//